On 26th of September of 2013, a balmy autumn day, Rengong Lou, the DPSE‘s Party secretary opened a report named “the adapting and growing steps of graduate students”for 2013 DPSE’s graduate freshmen. Jiao Meng took the role of chairman.
At 6:30 p.m, the report formally started. Lou is a national psychological counselor of grade 2, GCDF worldwide teacher of occupational planning, equipped with excellent professional qualities. He went directly to the theme of today’s topic: while learning knowledge is important in college years, more important is the nurturing of your adapting and growing in students’life; one having no pain in student life, even in his whole life cannot be recognized as a grown man, although he may be told as excellent person; if one encounters a stone in his heart and he cannot move it, he should seek help from doctors.
Lou’s report was combined by four parts: 1. Common concepts of psychological health; 2. How to improve the anti-frustration ability; 3. common psychological problems of graduate Students; 4.mental regulation with frustration syndrome. Then Lou explained to us in details the standard of mental health and the origin of pain, guided us to learn how to overcome obstacles and learn to wait and how to face the pressure from study, work and relationship. Also Lou recommended specially the “six suggestions for graduates about how to get on well with tutors”, which should be beneficial to students
At about eight, Lou shared with students his life motto: look at me from view of my whole life, not my short stage. There is no defeaters but only one who give up. Never give up in your life. At last, Meng announced the report came to an end and hot applause was burst from students present.
(by Soulea Xie)
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